In 2022, we were a few years into our homesteading/farming journey. It was a lot of work, time consuming, and most of all – lonely.
I (Amanda) found myself longing for friends who shared my interests. I wanted to have other women who had the same passion for growing, making, and creating in my life. When I confided this to my husband, Jake, he laughed and said, “The problem is, you and everyone like you never slow down enough to make time for friends!”
He was absolutely right. But I was tired of being too busy for what mattered most, and I was ready to prioritize building my own community around women who shared my interests.
So I asked myself: If I could design the perfect night out that I’d actually make time for, what would it look like?
That question sparked the birth of the “Homesteading Women’s Group” in our Spokane community.
The idea is pretty simple: every month the same group of 10-12 women meets to share a meal, learn a lesson, do a craft, and have time to talk. I hoped that it would be a fun night out that the women in the group could look forward to once a month.
The first year, I watched as the groups of women transformed from strangers into a close-knit circle of friends by the year’s end. We had single women, married women, young moms, empty nesters, retired women, stay at home moms and career women. And it showed me something profound: a community built on diversity of life experiences is so much richer than the alternative.
The response has been overwhelming. Many of the women have said something along the lines of, “This has been the highlight of my year, I look forward to it all month!” and, “This has been life changing, I feel like I finally found my people.”
The first year, we weren’t sure if we could fill one group. We ended up with two. By the second year, our waitlist grew so long we opened 4 groups—and they all filled within weeks.
By year 3, we had well over a hundred women on our waitlist and women from other parts of the country asking if they could fly here once a month to join in.
The response has made it clear: women are craving community.
We are excited to share that for the 2027 year, we are launching a new program to help women all over the country build their own local community group! (More info at the bottom of the page)